Who we are gets shaped pretty quick at a young age.

I write this to just get some words out, that who we are gets implanted pretty quickly as we grow up, from childhood to early teens. With our parents and how we are brought up, to our environment and life lessons. Which then becomes harder to unlearn as we get older.

When I was growing up, I didn’t always have my parents, I didn’t always have a stable family. There was trust broken, promises made and not kept and people coming in and out of my life at a very young age. I’ve dealt with death of family members and betrayal of them too in my early teens. Which has left me not being able to make great connections with people as I think they’re going to leave, not because I want to think that, but because of my prior learning that’s what I’ve been lead to believe.

It’s also been a road that’s left me in deep depression doing things I’m not proud of. It was one day I decided that I had to change all of that. I saw that there was people out there that actually did care about me and wanted to protect me. It was something that I had to learn, and it was very difficult. But it was something I was whiling to do. I made the changes myself, and made it a goal to start trusting people. This was only a few years ago now, when I was about 20 years old.

But I’ve gotten almost all of the way there, I’m trusting people and able to make friends and keep friends without worry that they’ll leave or betray. It’s not perfect but it’s better than the way I used to be. I’m able to ignore the negativity and concentrate on what makes me happy and be secure in the fact.

I’m happy with where I’m at, I’m getting on with my life, doing incredible things. I’m not negative with my outlook on life. But I do have those down days, but I know that each time is a little easier to get back on top. I love my life and love my friends who will always stick by me. Even though sometimes it’s overwhelming to know someone that truly cares about me, as I’m not always used to it.

All I’m trying to say is that in the first 15 years of our lives who we are as a person is forever changing with who we are brought up and learn how to deal with problems that may present to us. After that it starts to become difficult to learn new ways or relearn them. So to everyone that comes across someone who isn’t perfect, remember that they might be having a really tough time trying to recognize “normal” social interaction because they might not have learned how to the same way you have. So just be patient, try and understand them, and help them through.

Change the Negative to Positive!

I know I said I’d post more frequently, I just didn’t know how to word it until now.

I had a change in my life a few months ago. I suffered a broken heart by someone I loved and who I thought loved me. This time around I took it better than I thought because there came a time in life where I said enough was enough; there’s no point in holding onto the negative parts that may surround your life. Issues and problems can be dealt with, with the right help and support. The right mindset and realizing what you do have and not focus on what you don’t have.

I finally realized that I can’t always be a people pleaser to those who wont appreciate it, and be there for the one’s who will love you back and support you through the good times and the bad. I got rid of the negative energy, stopped being there for those who constantly hurt me or don’t appreciate the things I do for them. It wasn’t worth it anymore.

It turned out for the best for me, I’ve met new people, made new friends and even some older friends that came back into my life after a well needed break. I’ve had the best luck, and I’m feeling so much better about myself and my life.

Just what I’m saying is, don’t let the negative influences hold you back, you can take them away from your life, you don’t need negative people in your life, you can choose who you want in your life, just know that you never will be alone! Just keep the faith and pull through!

Thank You if you had read this… you can follow me on Twitter and Instagram using the RobUnplanned @ handle I’ll greatly appreciate it :)

Love to all of you!! :)

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Short Hi Post :P

This is my first post IN A LONG TIME!

just wanted to say to you all, that I can’t say in under 140 characters!

A while ago, I went through the typical heartbreak, and this time I figured to reinvent myself, I’ve lost so much weight and still going. But I’ve had so much positive feedback, and things have been working really well for me. Just been so happy, been more Social Media Active, going on twitter, talking to all these great people. I haven’t dealt with bullshit anymore, reconnected with my best friend. Made new friends, possible future boyfriend ;)

So yeah, I’ll keep making short little updates with my life on here, and tweeting and instagramming :P follow me everywhere using the @ handle @RobUnplanned for everything. The reason for the Unplanned part is because I’ll talk about in another post :P


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